Guiding Others

assalamu 3alikom,

i was talking to a third year friend tonight and she said: "our class isn't like urs, none of us helps others, every one there depends on him/her self, if not then on TAs"...

this made me think, Oh my God!!, how come!!.. i can tell u how we ppl -whenever possible- try our best to offer each other any help, we explain for each other, stand there for each other, we try to guide each other, and the most important thing is that we care!

i always give the simplest example about that, that the most helpfull peson in our class, Roaa, is ranked the 1st masha2Allaah.. u see, Allah rewards u back for what u do for His and ppl's sake.. i can't describe how gr8 if feels when u help sm1 in smth and he/she then keeps praying for u and thanking u for the thing u have done... it's priceless...

it's not only that u help ppl in studies, but give them expirence out of urs, help them even if they didnt ask u for help, guide them just if u feel that they may be needing it although they may not even realize it.. otherwise, y r u in their lives in the first place!!!!

recently, my collegue Alaa shaker, masha2Allaah bardo, he just thought of a session out of no where for the next senior students to guide them in their projects, and preparing for it nowadays... i dont think that anyone asked him for that!, it's just that when u know smth or learnt smth, u want to pass it to ppl, so that they dont suffer knowing it as much as u did..

if u just remember the pain u had when u needed guidance and u didnt find, or needed help and no one offered, u'll then know how deep, touching and gr8 it is to help others..

now, whenever any of those ppl is mentioned, that 1st word u hear is : "rabbena ybarekloo/laha".. and indeed, only Allaah is the one who can really weight their effort, based on their intentions, and pay them back...

and rabbena ybariklokoo ento kamaaan...

salaaaam

I'm Back

assalamu 3alikom,

it's quite clear that it has been a very long time since i last posted here, i donno y, i think i was really busy in the second term and had lots of things to worry about that made me even "Forget" that have a blod till sm1 remided me!!

well, i think i'm back, not sure yet :P, but i ewanna keep posting, it's like i've been isolated for awhile...

well, i have nthn to say, except that i had my results maybe yesterday, Very goog, al7amdulillaah, and now i'm graduated wal7amdulillaaah...

so, i hope i keep posting, as i was really surprised when i read my old posts today, i wrote that!!, feels nice :)

see u soon isAllaaah

salaaam

done with practicals, al7amdulillah

today al7amdulillah i finished el practicals , fadel el nazary...

i had networx and Cisco, i hated wat happened today.

both exams loaded my, not only the exams, both Dr.s too..

al7amdulillaaah 5allasnaaaa, w qaddara Allah w masha2 fa3al, w al7amdulillah 3ala kolli 7aal.

i'm tired and need to sleeep, i cant even complete the post.. later isAllah


salaaaaaaam

3eed Prayer

assalamu 3alikom,

Today al7amdulillah i went to the 3eed prayer, it was really nice.

wat u dont know that i really didnt want to go, i was feeling like :"ya rabbyyy, mesh 3ayza aroo7.. bas i have to... feha a lw maro7tish, yarabby, i have to, haroo7 wana maleesh nefs 5alessss :( ".. i kno that this sounds "7aram !" but that wat i really felt, not only me, my sister and cousins too!!

el mohem i went as i said - bel3afya- the mousque was crewded and every thing was like evey where in a 3eed moring :)

while we were saying the takbeeraat, the imam interrupted saying that we are muslims, and the islaam is the religion of order, we have to say the takberaat toghether, not koll wa7ed fe wady!!, he said we have to feel that "ALLAHU Akbaar", and that today Allah is looking at us with the angels and Allah wants to be proud of us , All muslims at the same time saying :"Allahu akbaar, Allahu akbaar".. we feel it and say it with love, pride and belief <--- those where his words!!

we continued takbeer, then stood to pray, he said : "ppl, for ur sake, the 5otba is part of the prayer, 3eed 5otba is a short one, we need to listen to it not just run after the tasleeem, stay and listen,then u will be doing as our dear prophet Muhammad did (pbuh) " ... and we prayed

of course i waited till the end of th e5otba.. he spoke about ( Al i7saan), he said the hadeeth :"Enna Allaha kataba al i7sana fe kolli shay2", he said that we have to be an "a7san" friend, "a7san" relative, "a7san" student... we have to do All the things we do "b-a7san" way, Allah loves that we do thingswith i7saan, Allah made the i7saan in every thing.

he also said that any thing u do in this life can be rewarded with soo much 7asanaat if u intend "al i7saan " in it for Allah, cz at the end of the story, every thing we do, we do it for Allah..

Now, i'm glad that i went to the prayer, and al7amdulillah happy with the usefull things i heard today, al7amdulillah that i didnt just stay at home like any other lazy person.. after All, howwa fee kam 3eed ad7a fel sana !!! :D

Kol sana wento tayyebeen :)

salaaaaam

Happy Feast

assalamu 3alikom,

Koll sana wento gamee3an b5eeer, ya rabb isAllah tkoon ayyamko kollaha sa3ada...

w Alf mabrook, isAllah tkoono mn elly rabbena 3ataqhom mn el naar today :)

thnx for those who sent me mails to add to my do3aa2 list, rabbena ytaqabbal menna w menkom ya rabb w yshfy mardana w mardakom w yrda 3anna gamee3an w yrzoqna el i5laas ya rabb, w yzedna noor :)

mesh 3arfa leeh ba2aly fatra 7assa enny 3ayza 2a2ool :"matensoneesh, hatew7ashooony", maybe cz this is the last 3eed that we are spending together, this fact arouses my tears... but isAllah our future will be full of happiness and we will meet again isAllah.

Alqakom 3ala 5eeer :)

special thanks to nosnos ;), rabbena yr3aaky w y7fazik.. enny o7ebboki fellaah (F)

salaaaaaam

kelmeteen 3assaree3

assalamu 3alikom,

mn kam yoom 3amalt zamb fazee3, kont lying down 3al bed, about to sleep, sme3t athan el fagr w 2olt fe serry :"ha2oom now" , w lamma omt la2eet el donia mnawwara wel shams tal3a... mn el a5er : ana sme3t el athan w bardo masaletsh el fagr...

7asseeet yomha bel zamb awyyy, w olt : yalahwy !!, howwa fee afza3 mn keda!!.. ana mesh bas sme3t el athan, da ana raddetto kaman...

el mohem olt yomha ana hasoom takfeeran 3an el amb da, ma3 enny kan nefsy yomha aftar awy, el yoom da fel kolleyya tawaeeel w mesh metsa77ara wala 7aga... bas olt bardo hasoom ::"rabbena y3'ferly ba2a", kont fe3lan mesh 3arfa akaffar ezzay.

yomha sub7ana Allah, el mo7adra etla3'et w rawwa7t badry :) ... w ftert 3ady w nemt tany yoom w s7eeet 3ala el fagr lwa7dy... omt fay2a w msa7sa7a ma3 enny kont nayma met2a55ar...w salleet el fagr 7ader wal7amdulillah .. sub7ana Allah fe3laan

hatha mn fadl rabby, al7amdulillaaahi rabbel 3alameen :)

ur (-ve) emotions

assalamu 3alikom,

i feel like it's been years since my last post, glad to be back :)

anyways, I'm attending nowadays the basic course 2 in Zedny, i see it's really cool.

last Tuesday the session was "how to deal with your negative emotions"... i thought that it was gonna be about not being sad, trying to smile, neglect how u feel, get busy by anything else, etc...

the session was really amazing.. it wasn't traditional as i thought it would be... a totally new content.

the instructor said that the negative feelings are very beautiful things.. each feeling we feel carries a msg that calls us for a certain action saying :"Hello, i'm the X feeling carrying the following msg, you need to do Y urgently !!!".. WOW ... this is a paradigm shift :D

he called the negative feelings as "Signals", and listed the most common "signal" as follows:

Discomfort Fear Anger Guilt Overload Inadequacy & Frustration

also listing each one's msg and the action it is calling for.

as i saw this a wonderful material i decided to give it in our dear FCIS, so if u r seeking details just come and attend :D....

i feel :"al7amdulillaaah that i had that awesome chance to attend that session", i feel blessed, and I'm trying to start acting as i learnt.

God bless u All..

salaaaaaaaam